Fast forward 2 years, we now live together with our 2 dogs and 1 cat and are starting to plan our wedding! We are delighted that you have met someone special here and would love to hear your experiences.They are proof positive that our website can successfully match people like you with a wonderful new partner.It was not because her relationship with the wealthy Alastair Lam did not advance ideally and ensuing “gold digger” ellegations by the media and public.Bernice’s eyes brimmed with tears as she spoke about falling ill over Lunar New Year, with the lower right side of body becoming immovable.The opposite is perhaps a more familiar term — we call it loneliness. We define "success" as anyone who benefits from our site regarding marriage, faith, friends, and romance. I can hear you talking and sometimes there are silences because I am absorbing the weight of your despair.You carry a very heavy burden, and have been for a while. At this point in the journey counseling rarely helps in any tangible way.
Regarding allegations in dating two men at the same time and branded as a gold digger, Bernice revealed that she had broken up [with Moses Chan] in 2008.Somewhere in our brains we carry a map of our relationships.It is our mother’s lap, our best friend’s holding hand, our lover’s embrace — all these we carry within ourselves when we are alone.I think a person gets beaten up for so long that, like in any prize fight, eventually you are so punch-drunk that it’s impossible to stand up straight; and it seems like you will never stand tall again. Counseling is hard enough to believe in when things are going your way.There is a cardinal rule in counseling that, as a therapist, you never make it about you.